Rebecca + Amos // Fun, Feminist Wedding at The Green Building

I loved how intentional Bec + Amos were about their winter wedding celebration
at The Green Building this past January.

At its core, their wedding was about the two of them (fun, funky fresh, feminist),
their union (based on mutual trust, admiration, and a love of emojis),
and sharing their joy with their community (on the dance floor).

All of the details were meaningful and present because they fit in with their central philosophy
as a couple. The awesome Amy from Modern Rebel & Co was there to make everything flow smoothly, and things did get fantastically, wonderfully weird.

Congratulations to Bec + Amos,
and here's to all the wonderful, wedded weirdos out there! 



P.S. I love working with intentional, wonderfully weird couples! For more information about working together, get in touch over at the Contact page

Venue: The Green Building // Hotel: The Dazzler // Planning: Modern Rebel & Co
Rebecca's Attire: Modcloth // Florals: Wyld // Catering: Night Kitchen
DJ: Scratch Weddings  // Make-up: Anny Chow // Second Photographer: Erika Koop Photography


City Love Travel Essay: San Francisco, Oakland + Los Angeles

I've been low-key obsessed with California since I was 12 or 13. That was the summer that our family took a trip, which found us Buryks skipping around to the La Brea tarpits and Grauman's theater, up the coastal highway to the aquarium at Monterey (seals sunbathing on rocks, Clint Eastwood's house), then over and down the absurdly mountainous hills of San Francisco, by foot, trolley, and car. 

I remember that dry heat, the rocking curves of Route 1, and thinking: someday, I want to live here. At that time, I wanted to be an actress, so it all checked out in my mind. First, I would conquer New York, and then Hollywood would follow close behind.

LA Wedding Photographer

It's been over a decade since then, and although I haven't lived in California for more than a month at a time, the state and its cities (and humans, of course) have wended their way into my heart and internal narrative. I've gone for conferences, and to visit friends. I went for my first wedding anniversary trip with my husband (plane tickets count as a paper gift, right?) And I went for a month long physical theater program that I affectionately refer to as "clown school," the summer I quit my desk job and committed to live a life of creative pursuit and human connection, paving the way for City Love Photography to exist.

That summer, California was there for me, shaping indelibly what it means for me to be creative, ambitious, ever curious and free.

I blame the palm trees. 


This past trip was vacation, pure and simple. A chance to reconnect with dear friends, see San Francisco, Oakland, and Los Angeles, and to support my former client (and now friend!) Hala Alyan on her book tour (I'm basically a literary groupie).

In Berkeley and Oakland, I was blown away as usual by the mellowness of the energy. SF looms large and frenetic, while East Bay plays it cool and calm. In NYC, I rarely stop to consider the natural world; in Berkeley I stared at the pink flowers above for a solid ten minutes, wondering how in the hell such a color could exist in nature. East Bay tickles my hardcore hippie heart, something that doesn't always surface out here in New York.

Berkeley Wedding Photographer
LA Wedding Photographer
Berkeley Wedding Photographer

On campus, Berkeley was abuzz with graduation and move-out day activities. The shopping on Telegraph is quirky and includes such delights at the Mad Monk Center for Anachronistic Media, so how could you not love it?

Berkeley Wedding Photographer
Berkeley Wedding Photographer

Of course, at some point I hear, "Hey, take MY picture!" and turn to see the gentleman above posing for me. Clowns: they follow me everywhere, especially in northern California.

I laughed, and snapped the photo. 

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I mean, there's just clearly something about the East Bay sense of humor that appeals to me deeply. A LOL lawn gnome, set against a plant that echoes directly his little lime green hat?! I walked past this to and from my AirBnB in Rockridge every day, and wondered what kind of amazing people lived inside a home so thusly decorated.

Berkeley Wedding Photographer

In San Fran proper, I hopped around the Mission, Dolores Park, and the Castro. I bought amazingly fragrant chocolate at Dandelion, noshed quiche from Craftsman and Wolves at the park whilst people-watching, and made sure to visit the fantastic Dog Eared Books and GLBT History Museum in the Castro. 

I can't ever get enough of the Bay Area. 

Craftsman and Wolves San Francisco
Craftsman and Wolves San Francisco
Dandelion Chocolate San Francisco
Dolores Park San Francisco
San Francisco Wedding Photographer
Castro Harvey Milk San Francisco
The Castro San Francisco
The Castro San Francisco

When it came time for the LA portion of my trip, I was mostly looking forward to seeing friends. I'd been to LA twice, and as a New Yorker and person who primarily understands and appreciates cities by walking, I had some hard and fast opinions (read: jaded hangups) on this "Los Angeles" place.

Los Angeles Wedding Photographer
Los Angeles Wedding Photographer
Los Angeles Wedding Photographer
Los Angeles Wedding Photographer

(Photos Above: When your best friend, Jessie, secretly makes you a dinner reservation at the restaurant of your shared favorite reality television program [yes, SUR, yes, Vanderpump Rules], and you ask her to smile for a photo, but first she insists on hugging a honeysuckle know she's a keeper.)

Hollywood Stars Los Angeles
Lizard in Los Angeles

I was so pleasantly surprised to find myself enamored by LA. Having great friends in a place certainly contributes to warm vibes anywhere, but this visit to LA I tried to stay open-minded and know it on its own terms. I found it to be a place where the unapologetically laidback meets the unapologetically ambitious. I was struck by the amazing landscape of mountains meeting desert meeting ocean, and the small-but-cool downtowns at the center of every neighborhood, each one unique and with its own quirky character. 

The "city" as a whole is not walkable by any stretch of the imagination. But for the first time, I was able to get over my New Yorker-ness, and I could definitely see why people love LA. 

I was tickled to feel in myself, in my deeply chrome-and-sunset-over-the-Hudson heart, a pang of missing the place and wanting more as my plane sped off the runway at LAX.  

Los Feliz Art
Los Feliz Art

So here's to getting out and about, to finding new selves in new places. 

To reconnecting with old friends, to keeping our circle of community ever-widening.

And to falling in love with a city as it is, and not as we expect it to be. 

California, you're a total babe. Hope to see you again soon.


Best of City Love Photography 2016

Amidst the sh*t of 2016, I was fortunate to be able to constantly reaffirm my faith in humanity
through my beautiful clients and their weddings.  

They got married in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, and the Bronx. 

They got married in New Jersey, New York, and Rhode Island, too.

They made their own decisions about what traditions to keep, and which to jettison.

They invited their best friends, their families, their pets, their mentors, their coworkers,
and the entire NYC Gay Women's Basketball league. 

They danced their faces off. 

And most importantly, they celebrated. 

They celebrated their partnerships as they continue to grow. They celebrated the people who've supported them all their lives. And they celebrated what it means to love, and be loved.

In uncertain times, I return to this notion again and again. That what we want most is to be brought into relation, within. That nothing matters more to us than this: intimacy. (Mark Doty)

So thank you to my clients for another amazing year of business; I love you all
and am very much looking forward to more fantastic celebrations in 2017.

With love,

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